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Relationship Hack: The Bell and Whistle Solution

Relationship Hack: The Bell and Whistle Solution

Struggling with your partner’s habits but can’t find the right words? Discover how a simple bell and whistle transformed our communication, making it fun and effective. Learn how to turn your relationship’s rough patches into opportunities for growth and laughter!

Don’t Assume, Ask: Navigating Communication in Relationships

Don’t Assume, Ask: Navigating Communication in Relationships

In non-monogamous relationships, clear communication is crucial. Julia and Zain’s story shows how assumptions can lead to hurt feelings and misunderstandings. By openly discussing their boundaries and expectations, they were able to strengthen their connection. Don’t assume, ask! And build a relationship that respects everyone’s needs.

Is Casual Sex Nonmonogamy? Exploring the Land of Singledom

Is Casual Sex Nonmonogamy? Exploring the Land of Singledom

Contrary to popular belief, nonmonogamy isn’t exclusive to those in committed relationships. Singles can also practice nonmonogamy, engaging in multiple connections simultaneously. Today, we’ll dive into the unpartnered side of the relationship landscape and look into the different options available for unattached individuals.

Curious About Nonmonogamy? 7 Questions to Ask Yourself First

Curious About Nonmonogamy? 7 Questions to Ask Yourself First

Nonmonogamy is everywhere these days, with more people than ever interested in something other than strict monogamy. Yet there are many different ways to do nonmonogamy. Before you dive headfirst into this big life decision, here are 7 key questions to ask yourself to figure out if nonmonogamy is really a good idea for you.

“Polyamory” Is NOT Synonymous With “Consensual Nonmonogamy”

“Polyamory” Is NOT Synonymous With “Consensual Nonmonogamy”

The media has REALLY been paying attention to consensual nonmonogamy over these last few months. BUT it all centers around polyamory. Conflating polyamory with all types of nonmonogamy can be misleading at best, harmful at worst. Let’s look at why this is the case, and how to avoid its pitfalls.

7 Common Yet Avoidable Mistakes That Make You Fail in Sex and Love

7 Common Yet Avoidable Mistakes That Make You Fail in Sex and Love

There’s more information available about how to be happy in our relationships than ever before, yet so many of us continue to struggle with this essential aspect of our lives. This week, I explain the 7 most common and heartbreaking, yet avoidable, mistakes I see people make that stop them from living their dream sex and love lives.

What Is Squirting and Where Does It Come From?

What Is Squirting and Where Does It Come From?

Squirting is a fascinating yet confusing topic, where there’s huge amounts of misinformation, due its lack of academic research, as well as inaccuracies in both academic and sex educators messaging. So in today’s edition, I answer one of the most common questions I get about squirting: What is squirting and where does it come from?

Are Men Dominant, and Women Submissive?

Are Men Dominant, and Women Submissive?

Conventional wisdom pins men as dominant and women as submissive, but is this binary truly rooted in reality, or is it a gender stereotype? What do the fantasies of Canadians reveal about our desires?