Happy International Women’s Day! In the spirit of women’s empowerment, let’s talk about something that until recently was absolutely unimaginable for a woman to even voice as a desire, let alone act on it: a massive gangbang/train. Thanks to all of the social, economic, medical, and technological progress we’ve enjoyed in the last 50 years or so, this is now a luxury some of us can not only dream of, but actually experience…
My favorite play party Top Floor NYC is coming up soon! If you’ve followed me for a while, you know I’m a huge fan of this party. But there’s one rule that I’ve always hated—not just at Top Floor, but at most play parties…
If you’ve been watching Harlem on Prime Video—a modern-day, Black version of Sex and the City—you know the show has been praised for its contemporary, funny, and authentic take on (at least high-end) Black love, friendship, and success. But in the final two episodes of Season 3 (and likely the last), they introduced a polyamory plotline that had me initially excited… and then completely disappointed.
Valentine’s Day always brings up big conversations about love, commitment, and choosing the right partner. And this year, I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by Swooon for their new ‘Love Lessons’ series, where we delved into the intricate dynamics of one of television’s most iconic love triangles: Carrie, Mr. Big, and Aidan from Sex and the City
Last Sunday at this year’s Grammys, Kanye (Ye) West and his wife Bianca made headlines—not for the music, but for Bianca’s outfit. Or rather, her lack of an outfit. Dressed in a sheer, skin-tight slip that left absolutely nothing to the imagination, Bianca’s look sparked intense reactions ranging from admiration to outrage (though mostly outrage). Some called… Read More
Recently, an old NYT headline about pedophilia (“a disorder, not a crime”) got recirculated on X. Predictably, there was massive amount of outrage, especially since some accounts with huge followings (including Elon Musk himself) commented on or reshared it. My response to it went viral, garnering over 9 million views. This came shortly after the… Read More
As 2025 begins, I want to start with a heartfelt thank you. The conversations, insights, and support from all of you have meant the world to me. But I also want to share some changes that will impact how we connect in the coming months. Looking back at 2024, to say it was a challenging… Read More
When was the last time you were fully present with someone you love? My unexpected “relationship” with X reminded me how easily screens can steal our attention. Let’s explore how setting boundaries and prioritizing presence can help us reconnect with what matters most—our relationships and ourselves—this holiday season.
If you’ve spent any time on TikTok or Instagram recently, you’ve probably come across mentions of the “4B” movement (Four Nos”: no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no children.) Originally a radical feminist movement that took root in South Korea about a decade ago, it’s now making waves in the U.S.
As many of you know, a couple of weeks ago, my partner and I ventured into our first play party together, marking our initial foray into nonmonogamy after a year of monogamy. We chose Top Floor, and I’m thrilled to report that we had an amazing time—even better than we could have hoped for.
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