Contact Me


Hi there, I’m so glad you’re interested in working with me. Depending on your needs, there are a few ways we can work together. Let’s talk about what your options are.

LoveSmarter University

LoveSmarter University is a breakthrough new framework and toolkit for aligning your life with the relationship style that is right for you, experiencing the ecstatic sex you deserve, and becoming the outstanding lover and partner that everyone always wishes they could find. Join my waitlist and be the first to know about the new products and special offers!

Work With Me Privately

If you need guidance on how to best navigate your current relationship situation AND your situation is relatively complicated, you know you need a continued nudge on your path to personal and relational growth, or you have a bigger budget, sign up for my private consulting package.

Therapists Consultations

Are you a therapist, counselor, or other mental health professional working with clients with nontraditional sexual and relational interests and lifestyles, and are looking for 1-1 support and/or training on how you can support them better? Take advantage of my Therapists Special. (It includes my Open Smarter course where you can find the same method and tools I use with my private clients and work at your own pace.)

Talks & Workshops

Do you have an organization, company, or community who would benefit from learning about the LoveSmarter™ method (or any of its specific topics) and how to apply it to design their dream love lives? Book me for a talk, workshop, or retreat.

Media requests and other collaborations

Have a media request or a collaboration idea? Email Please note I’m really busy. I will have to say no to a lot of requests.

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