When was the last time you were fully present with someone you love? My unexpected “relationship” with X reminded me how easily screens can steal our attention. Let’s explore how setting boundaries and prioritizing presence can help us reconnect with what matters most—our relationships and ourselves—this holiday season.
If you’ve spent any time on TikTok or Instagram recently, you’ve probably come across mentions of the “4B” movement (Four Nos”: no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no children.) Originally a radical feminist movement that took root in South Korea about a decade ago, it’s now making waves in the U.S.
As many of you know, a couple of weeks ago, my partner and I ventured into our first play party together, marking our initial foray into nonmonogamy after a year of monogamy. We chose Top Floor, and I’m thrilled to report that we had an amazing time—even better than we could have hoped for.
This Thanksgiving, amidst a world grappling with turmoil and uncertainty, take a moment to lean into gratitude. Despite the hardships, connection and togetherness can provide strength and hope. Let’s hold each other close, cherish the small joys, and find gratitude in the support of our communities. Together, we keep moving forward.
A few weeks ago, comedian Jerrod Carmichael and his boyfriend attended a game with their friends, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. The internet buzzed—not just about the celebrity outing—but also about how unpleasantly surprised some were that Jerrod and his boyfriend are still together despite Jerrod’s multiple infidelities during the filming of his show, the Jerrod Carmichael’s… Read More
After a year of intentional monogamy, my partner and I stepped into our first play party and had an incredible threesome with a woman! Why start there? Because opening up is all about maximizing pleasure and minimizing friction for everyone involved. Check the post to learn more!
What happens when your needs—like physical touch or words of affirmation—go unmet in your relationship? Explore strategies for open communication, self-awareness, and collaborative solutions to bridge the gap. Whether through patience, self-care, or tailored support, learn how to nurture your connection without jeopardizing your bond. Let’s dive in!
“People don’t change.” Or do they? While change is possible, it’s not always easy—or chosen. Explore why transformation often feels out of reach, the barriers that hold us back, and the steps to embrace personal growth. Ready to challenge limiting beliefs and create the change you seek? Let’s dive in!
We all have a “Sue”—that inner saboteur wreaking havoc on our well-being and relationships. Inspired by Demi Moore’s The Substance, this post invites you to reflect on your “Sue,” where she comes from, and how to coexist in harmony. Ready to uncover your inner world and foster personal growth? Let’s explore!
I rarely talk about politics in my emails or on social media, but with the presidential election less than a month away in the U.S., and some very interesting and unusual shifts happening within the electorate this time, I’m genuinely curious: Who are you voting for, or who would you vote for if you could vote in the U.S. election?
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