Last Sunday at this year’s Grammys, Kanye (Ye) West and his wife Bianca made headlines—not for the music, but for Bianca’s outfit. Or rather, her lack of an outfit. Dressed in a sheer, skin-tight slip that left absolutely nothing to the imagination, Bianca’s look sparked intense reactions ranging from admiration to outrage (though mostly outrage). Some called… Read More
Recently, an old NYT headline about pedophilia (“a disorder, not a crime”) got recirculated on X. Predictably, there was massive amount of outrage, especially since some accounts with huge followings (including Elon Musk himself) commented on or reshared it. My response to it went viral, garnering over 9 million views. This came shortly after the… Read More
As 2025 begins, I want to start with a heartfelt thank you. The conversations, insights, and support from all of you have meant the world to me. But I also want to share some changes that will impact how we connect in the coming months. Looking back at 2024, to say it was a challenging… Read More
Do you have an orgasm nearly every time you have sex? If you’re a cis-male, I’m willing to bet the answer is “yes.” And for everyone else, it’s complicated. We’ve heard that women really like foreplay – and some opt for it instead of intercourse. Some cis-males are surprised by this because according to this study referenced in this article, cis-males have an over 90% chance of… Read More
Q&A with Dr. Zhana If you don’t know me, I’m a professor of Human Sexuality at New York University and the author of Open Smarter – an online course for individuals and couples who are curious about nonmonogamy and open relationships. I have been in open relationships my whole life (first non-consensually and then consensually later in… Read More
Monogamy. We’ve heard of this; I’ll bet it’s been the norm for most of us. You know that friend of yours that has threesomes with his girlfriend and other women from time-to-time? Or that couple that flirts with others shamelessly, but never goes beyond a make-out session? Or maybe you’ve been in a LDR (long… Read More
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