Category: Nonmonogamy

Why Aubrey Marcus Deserves the Sex-Positive Community’s Respect—and Owes It an Apology

Why Aubrey Marcus Deserves the Sex-Positive Community’s Respect—and Owes It an Apology

Back in June, Aubrey Marcus, a successful entrepreneur and influencer also known for his very public nonmonogamy journey, dropped the first in what would become a three-part podcast series about his evolving relationship structure with his wife, Vylana, and their other partners. If you were anywhere near Instagram or YouTube when that first episode landed, you probably saw the backlash — the comment sections were so heated they had to be shut down. At the time, I was in the middle…

Why Start Our Nonmonogamy Journey With an FFM Threesome

Why Start Our Nonmonogamy Journey With an FFM Threesome

After a year of intentional monogamy, my partner and I stepped into our first play party and had an incredible threesome with a woman! Why start there? Because opening up is all about maximizing pleasure and minimizing friction for everyone involved. Check the post to learn more!

Q&A: Is Catching Feelings Like Experiencing Jealousy?

Q&A: Is Catching Feelings Like Experiencing Jealousy?

In our fast-paced world of dating apps and casual hookups, the phrase “catching feelings” has become increasingly common. But what does it really mean, and how should we approach it in our various relationship structures? Let’s dive into it!

Relationship Hack: The Bell and Whistle Solution

Relationship Hack: The Bell and Whistle Solution

Struggling with your partner’s habits but can’t find the right words? Discover how a simple bell and whistle transformed our communication, making it fun and effective. Learn how to turn your relationship’s rough patches into opportunities for growth and laughter!

Relationship Hack: The Positives List

Relationship Hack: The Positives List

When tough moments arise in your relationship, using the Positives List can be a game-changer. This simple hack helps you focus on the qualities you love about your partner, defuse tension, and maintain perspective. Discover how this tool can strengthen your connection and keep your relationship on track!