Category: Newsletter

From Monogamy to Polyamory and Back: A Journey of Love and Discovery

What if opening your relationship wasn’t the end goal, but a path to self-discovery? A NYT story reveals how one couple’s polyamorous journey uncovered hidden truths—her queerness, his need for deeper connection—and reshaped their lives. Explore how nonmonogamy can spark growth, clarity, and unexpected destinations. Could it for you?

Q&A: Is Catching Feelings Like Experiencing Jealousy?

Q&A: Is Catching Feelings Like Experiencing Jealousy?

In our fast-paced world of dating apps and casual hookups, the phrase “catching feelings” has become increasingly common. But what does it really mean, and how should we approach it in our various relationship structures? Let’s dive into it!

When Safety Gets Personal: My Unexpected Assault

A recent assault left me shaken but reflective about safety, mental health, and navigating the unexpected. How do we balance living fearlessly with staying vigilant? And how can we support those struggling in our communities? Explore my takeaways from this experience and join the conversation about resilience and community care.

Q&A: What to Do with Intimate Mementos After a Breakup?

Breakups bring tough questions—like whether to delete intimate mementos such as sex tapes or photos. Should you keep them or let them go? Discover why giving yourself time to heal, securing storage, and revisiting the decision later can help you honor your emotions while respecting boundaries. Let’s navigate this together.

I’m The Most Monogamous I’ve Ever Been…

What happens when two nonmonogamous souls agree to temporary monogamy? For me and my partner, it’s been a surprising journey of deeper connection, better sex, and newfound peace. Explore how the option of future openness can transform commitment and why flexibility in love might be the key to lasting happiness.

Relationship Hack: The Bell and Whistle Solution

Relationship Hack: The Bell and Whistle Solution

Struggling with your partner’s habits but can’t find the right words? Discover how a simple bell and whistle transformed our communication, making it fun and effective. Learn how to turn your relationship’s rough patches into opportunities for growth and laughter!