The media has REALLY been paying attention to consensual nonmonogamy over these last few months. BUT it all centers around polyamory. Conflating polyamory with all types of nonmonogamy can be misleading at best, harmful at worst. Let’s look at why this is the case, and how to avoid its pitfalls.
There’s more information available about how to be happy in our relationships than ever before, yet so many of us continue to struggle with this essential aspect of our lives. This week, I explain the 7 most common and heartbreaking, yet avoidable, mistakes I see people make that stop them from living their dream sex and love lives.
Squirting is a fascinating yet confusing topic, where there’s huge amounts of misinformation, due its lack of academic research, as well as inaccuracies in both academic and sex educators messaging. So in today’s edition, I answer one of the most common questions I get about squirting: What is squirting and where does it come from?
Conventional wisdom pins men as dominant and women as submissive, but is this binary truly rooted in reality, or is it a gender stereotype? What do the fantasies of Canadians reveal about our desires?
As CNM gains media attention and is labeled a privilege of the privileged, critics call it a high-class fad, but does the evidence support their claims, or are we observing a significant societal shift toward understanding love differently?
The popular narrative claims that men are inherently nonmonogamous, driven by evolution to “spread their seed,” while women are inherently monogamous, built for long-term love and attachment. Is it true?
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