Breakups bring tough questions—like whether to delete intimate mementos such as sex tapes or photos. Should you keep them or let them go? Discover why giving yourself time to heal, securing storage, and revisiting the decision later can help you honor your emotions while respecting boundaries. Let’s navigate this together.
What happens when two nonmonogamous souls agree to temporary monogamy? For me and my partner, it’s been a surprising journey of deeper connection, better sex, and newfound peace. Explore how the option of future openness can transform commitment and why flexibility in love might be the key to lasting happiness.
Struggling with your partner’s habits but can’t find the right words? Discover how a simple bell and whistle transformed our communication, making it fun and effective. Learn how to turn your relationship’s rough patches into opportunities for growth and laughter!
When tough moments arise in your relationship, using the Positives List can be a game-changer. This simple hack helps you focus on the qualities you love about your partner, defuse tension, and maintain perspective. Discover how this tool can strengthen your connection and keep your relationship on track!
Struggling with your partner’s annoying habits but unsure how to address them constructively? We all have patterns that can unintentionally harm our relationships if left unchecked. Learn how a simple grading system turned our frustrations into constructive conversations and improved our relationship.
In non-monogamous relationships, clear communication is crucial. Julia and Zain’s story shows how assumptions can lead to hurt feelings and misunderstandings. By openly discussing their boundaries and expectations, they were able to strengthen their connection. Don’t assume, ask! And build a relationship that respects everyone’s needs.
Contrary to popular belief, nonmonogamy isn’t exclusive to those in committed relationships. Singles can also practice nonmonogamy, engaging in multiple connections simultaneously. Today, we’ll dive into the unpartnered side of the relationship landscape and look into the different options available for unattached individuals.
Nonmonogamy is everywhere these days, with more people than ever interested in something other than strict monogamy. Yet there are many different ways to do nonmonogamy. Before you dive headfirst into this big life decision, here are 7 key questions to ask yourself to figure out if nonmonogamy is really a good idea for you.
The media has REALLY been paying attention to consensual nonmonogamy over these last few months. BUT it all centers around polyamory. Conflating polyamory with all types of nonmonogamy can be misleading at best, harmful at worst. Let’s look at why this is the case, and how to avoid its pitfalls.
There’s more information available about how to be happy in our relationships than ever before, yet so many of us continue to struggle with this essential aspect of our lives. This week, I explain the 7 most common and heartbreaking, yet avoidable, mistakes I see people make that stop them from living their dream sex and love lives.
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