If you’ve spent any time on TikTok or Instagram recently, you’ve probably come across mentions of the “4B” movement (Four Nos”: no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no children.) Originally a radical feminist movement that took root in South Korea about a decade ago, it’s now making waves in the U.S.
As many of you know, a couple of weeks ago, my partner and I ventured into our first play party together, marking our initial foray into nonmonogamy after a year of monogamy. We chose Top Floor, and I’m thrilled to report that we had an amazing time—even better than we could have hoped for.
This Thanksgiving, amidst a world grappling with turmoil and uncertainty, take a moment to lean into gratitude. Despite the hardships, connection and togetherness can provide strength and hope. Let’s hold each other close, cherish the small joys, and find gratitude in the support of our communities. Together, we keep moving forward.
A few weeks ago, comedian Jerrod Carmichael and his boyfriend attended a game with their friends, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. The internet buzzed—not just about the celebrity outing—but also about how unpleasantly surprised some were that Jerrod and his boyfriend are still together despite Jerrod’s multiple infidelities during the filming of his show, the Jerrod Carmichael’s… Read More
After a year of intentional monogamy, my partner and I stepped into our first play party and had an incredible threesome with a woman! Why start there? Because opening up is all about maximizing pleasure and minimizing friction for everyone involved. Check the post to learn more!
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