Orgasms for Dummies – TSOS Podcast, Ep. 16! – DrZhana

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Orgasms for Dummies – TSOS Podcast, Ep. 16!

It might not be a surprise that, on average, straight women orgasm less frequently than straight men when it comes to their sexual encounters, but why is this?

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A 2014 nationally representative study of Americans ages 18-59 found that 91% of men but only 64% of women reported orgasm during their most recent partnered sex. However, lesbians orgasm much more frequently and reliably than heterosexual and bisexual women, but for the men, there are fewer, if any, sexual orientation differences when it comes to orgasm frequency. A new study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior earlier this year surveyed over 50,000 Americans more or less confirmed these gender and sexual orientation differences in orgasm rates, and extended the research into understanding some of the demographic factors and sexual practices that are linked to higher or lower rates of orgasm. Speaking with us on this episode is the lead author on this study, Dr. David Frederick.

Dr. Frederick got his PhD from UCLA and is now an Assistant Professor of Psychology at Chapman University in California. His work uses perspectives from social psychology, health psychology, and evolutionary psychology to better understand human sexual motivations, attractions, body image, sexual satisfaction and orgasm, and sexual orientation differences in some of these constructs.


A controversial new app, LegalFling, is hoping to take any element of question out of sexual encounters. It creates legally binding contracts pertaining to sexual consent during hookups. The contracts could include options like having a list of sexual do’s and don’ts, photo and video approval, whether a condom should be used, whether explicit language can be used, and a guarantee that prospective partners are STD-free. Although a good concept in theory, some legal activists are saying the concept is a bad one, citing the fact that consent for sexual activity can be withdrawn at any time including after sex has started.

It has been proven that rural women start having sex younger than city girls, and also end up having more children. The CDC released its findings of a study of 10,000 American women. By looking at differences in their sexual activity, it was revealed that countryside girls started having sex at 16.6 years old, compared to urban ones who waited until 17.4 years old. At the age of 18, three quarters of the rural women are having sex, and only 68.6 percent from the cities. Perhaps the teenagers growing up in larger towns have other forms of entertainment? Countryside ladies also end up having more children. However, they also used more fool-proof contraception than the city teens, who admitted that they rely more on the (risky!) “pull-out” method.

According to a new study, the biggest sexual turn-off for men (BY FAR) is trying to have a baby. When men were trying to conceive, they were 22% less interested in having sex, making it more of a mood killer than depression, being tired, or even having erectile dysfunction issues. The researchers say there are two main reasons: One, men feel like trying to conceive takes some of the passion away, and two, it can lead to serious frustration if a couple is having problems.


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