It is important to find out if you and your partner have sexual differences. If you do, do not be too worried. There are methods to making those differences work out! Take into consideration, partners will have different sexual interests. Sophie Saint Thomas quoted me in a VISE article called, How to Make Sex and Relationships Work When Only One of You Is Kinky, on what couples can do when one partner is kinky and the other is vanilla.
“I think it’s usually a good idea to stay open-minded about something you’re not sure about,” is what Vrangalova tells to couples who are struggling to match up their desires. “Give it a try and see what works for you or not.” If anything, the longer you wait to test out your kinks, fetishes, and various sexual curiosities with your partner, the more difficult it can become to try together.